Dr Eddie Murphy: "Tackling the drink and stress will help you beat tiredness"

Advice column with the Operation Transformation psychologist

Dr Eddie Murphy


Dr Eddie Murphy



Dr Eddie Murphy: "Tackling the drink and stress will help you beat tiredness"

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Why am I so tired? It’s a good question to ask and possible the simplest answer is that I need to get to bed earlier. I wish, however, it was as simple as that.

Very often I see many individuals who complain of feeling exhausted, even though they’re sleeping well. Often, the problem has been going on for several months.

At any given time, one in five people feels unusually tired, and one in 10 have prolonged fatigue, according to the Royal College of Psychiatrists. Women tend to feel tired more than men.

It's worth a check-out from your GP, but as one practitioner remarked: “It’s unusual to find anything physically wrong. Most of the time, fatigue is linked with mood and the accumulation of lots of little stresses in life.”

Happily, our GPs are excellent and routinely take a blood test from patients complaining of tiredness to rule out a medical cause, such as anaemia or an underactive thyroid gland.

“There’s more chance of a medical reason for tiredness if there are other symptoms as well, such as heavy periods, weight loss, a change in bowel habits, hair loss, extreme thirst and so on.”

Before you consult, work out how you became tired in the first place. It can help to think about:

* Parts of your life, such as work and family, that might be particularly tiring;

* Any events that may have triggered your tiredness, for instance, a bereavement or relationship break-up;

* How your lifestyle may be making you tired.

Psychological tiredness is far more common than tiredness that's caused by a physical problem. One key reason is stress and anxiety, which can cause insomnia and in turn lead to persistent fatigue.

A survey by the Mental Health Foundation found that nearly a third of the population are severely sleep-deprived, often because of job and money worries. The Foundation’s report, Sleep Matters, suggests a link between insomnia and low energy levels.

The worries and strains of daily life can be exhausting — even positive events, such as moving house or getting married. And emotional shock, such as bad news, bereavement or the break-up of a relationship, can make you feel drained.

Mental health problems such as depression or anxiety can make you feel more tired. They can also prevent you from getting a proper night's sleep.

Lifestyle tiredness

Tiredness can often be attributed to lifestyle factors, such as drinking too much alcohol, or having a bad diet. If you drink alcohol in the evening, it tends to wake you in the middle of the night. And if you drink a lot regularly, it can make you depressed and affect your sleep. I’m always surprised to find how often clients who complain of tiredness are drinking far too much.

If you have a disturbed sleep pattern — for instance if you work night shifts, sleep in the day or look after young children — it can be difficult to get a good night’s sleep, and you’ll feel tired during the day. Read more about how to change your lifestyle to boost your energy.

Tackling Tiredness

1. Go to your GP for a check-up.

2. Eat often to beat tiredness. Eat regular meals and healthy snacks every three to four hours, rather than a large meal less often to keep your energy levels balanced.

3. Perk up with exercise. You might feel too tired to exercise, but regular exercise will make you feel less tired in the long run and you’ll have more energy.

4. Lose weight to gain energy. If your body is carrying excess weight, it can be exhausting. Lose weight and you’ll feel much more energetic.

5. Sleep well. It sounds obvious, but go to bed and get up in the morning at the same time everyday; avoid naps through the day.

6. Reduce stress to boost energy. Stress uses up a lot of energy.

Try to introduce relaxing activities into your day. This could be working out at the gym, or a gentler option such as listening to music, reading or spending time with friends.

7. Cut out caffeine. The Royal College of Psychiatrists recommends that anyone feeling tired should cut out caffeine.

It says the best way to do this is to gradually stop having all caffeine drinks (and that includes coffee and tea and cola drinks) over a three-week period. Try to stay off caffeine completely for a month to see if you feel less tired without it.

8. Drink less alcohol. Although a few glasses of wine in the evening helps you fall asleep, you sleep less deeply after drinking alcohol. The next day you’ll be tired even if you sleep a full eight hours. Cut down on alcohol before bedtime. You’ll get a better night’s rest and have more energy.

9. Drink more water for better energy. Sometimes you feel tired simply because you’re mildly dehydrated. A glass of water will do the trick, especially after exercise.

10. Stop being a couch potato and being stuck indoors. Sitting in one position for long periods of time can sap your energy, even if you’re watching the TV or using the computer.

Lack of light and fresh air is a key cause of tiredness. Solution: Get out for a 10-minute walk at least once during the day or when you're most tired. Even if it’s cloudy, you’ll be exposed to more natural light than inside and you’ll feel more alert.

Dr Eddie Murphy runs a psychological and counselling service in Portarlington, Co Laois. If you are organising a speaker or training for school, community, voluntary, sporting or work groups, call Dr Eddie on 087 1302899 or go to www.facebook.com/ dr.eddie.murphy.psychologist